Finally back to loving me

Xoliswa Nongcebo Shandu
1 min readSep 16, 2020

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I am sitting down at my new place, it’s dusty and I do not have a broom yet. Just came to drop off some stuff, measure the window situation for the curtains and go about my day. There is work to do though, I mean actual work, so after work is done then I can move to the shops.

Lord am I glad I am done with being somebody else’s person, I spent many years without even realizing that I was slowly taking on a persona that was not even mine. I am coming back though, thanks to my little sister who reminded me of my potential which I had stifled. No more I say, I will be the me I want and was always meant to be.

I have two beautiful baby girls looking to me, they will grow up and do things they have learned from me. I would like them to take courage, love and truth. Courage to live by their own rules, love themselves and stay true to their own damn spirits. Life is short, even if I die today, I have done well because I chose to love myself and took back the courage to live by my own rules. Cheers!!!

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Xoliswa Nongcebo Shandu
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